Tuesday, February 13, 2007

.. Too Much Like a Guy..

Since I haven't posted in awhile I figure that it's update time. For those of you who didn't know, [which is probably none of you] I have had two serious crushes since I dated the bouncer, who doesn't really count in my book anyway. The first one was on Lance, which obviously didn't work out because he wanted to be just friends. Fine, that's cool by me. The second one however was on Mike. Now, this one was rather interesting, I knew that he was almost seeing some other girl, but you know me, I like a challenge. So I was just myself with him, went to movies, played nintendo, went for coffee, and eventually he told me that he did really like me and was thinking about dating. What can I say? I was pumped. He is super cool, tall, amazingly funny and just all around a pretty sweet guy. So yesterday, I asked him if he wanted to do something that night, he told me no because he has alot of laundry to get ready for his trip to Sunshine, which is understandable. Well when he got home and talked to me on msn, he asked if I wanted to do something, of course I said sure. We were trying to figure out what to do when he says "actually I think I'm just going to stay home with the family tonight." Uh. WTF? Then he goes on to say how I'm the 'coolest chick' he knows but I'm too much like a guy to date. Uh.. EXCUSE ME? I'm sorry that I like to play nintendo, watch action movies, like teenage mutant ninja turtles and stuff like that? Honestly, wouldn't a guy prefer a girl that can hang out with the guys that one that has to whine whenever she doesn't get her way? Christ. Men. Shit like this seems to be happening quite a bit and I really don't understand it. Any input into this situation would be much appreciated. later days..

4 comments:

jamie* said...

Hi there.
Been there.
Done that.
That's my relationship history for the last eight years.

"You're just a guy with long hair" is what I get most often. I unfortunately trapped myself into that a LONG time ago... but on the bright side? It's livable lol.


Pretty much started to get fed up with it.
It's okay Sara. I still love you in the most girly way possible.

Al said...

Yeah, that's kinda unfair. Maybe its just cuz he doesn't know what to do with a girl like you. I mean, you don't really fit into the "girl box" (and that's a good thing) so maybe that just blows his mind too much. I dunno, but I sure wouldn't stop being who you are!

GerFer said...

Some guys like girlie girls other guys like more tom boy type of girls.

Same deal other way around with the Macho vs sensitive guy types.

To say a person fits into one category would be a generalization people have to many variables to their personalities to be classified into one.

jamie* said...

Touche! lol